和孩子正面交流的方法

大部分时候,家长如果能正面地和子女沟通,效果会更好。

1、命令
Because I said so! 这是我说的。你要听!
换个正面说法:
I know you want to play a little more, but we have to go to see grandma. 我当然知道你想和小熊玩的心情,不过,我们真的得去见见外婆哦~

2、理解
Stop crying. 把眼泪给我收回去!
换个正面说法:
I know how bad you feel. I’d be sad too. 我懂你的伤心,毕竟,我也很难过~

3、说服
If you don’t eat your cereal, you’ll stay weak and small. 你要是吃不完饭,就会长得挫!
换个正面说法:
If you eat your cereal, you’ll be clever and strong like dad. 如果你好好吃饭,一定会像爸爸一样强壮~

4、教导
You’re doing it wrong. Give it to me! 你这么做错了!给我,我给你搭!
换个正面说法:
Let me show you a neat trick to do it quickly. 我有个小技巧,让我来展示一下,如何搭得更快些吧~

5、关心
I see you’re anxious. 你看上去不高兴。
换个正面说法:
Let’s talk about it. 要不,咱俩唠唠~

6、推动
Let’s get going. How long do I have to wait for you? 赶紧出发!你到底让我等你多久?
换个正面说法:
Race you to get dressed and ready! 来比赛吧?看谁先准备好出门~

7、规则
Take it! 给你,拿好了,不准哭了!
换个正面说法:
I understand, but you know I can’t allow it. 我理解你的心情,不过,你也知道,这不应该是我允许你做的~

8、奖励
If you wash the dishes, I’ll give you candy. 你洗完了这些餐具,我就给你糖果吃!
换个正面说法:
Remember when you washed the dishes the other day? You helped me so much! 你记得你那天帮我把餐具洗干净了吗?你简直帮了我一个大忙呢~

9、坦然
How do I know? 你问我,我问谁去?!
换个正面说法:
I don’t know that yet, but I’ll tell you when I find out. 我也不知道这个问题,不如,我找到答案后,和你分享?

10、指令
Stop watching TV. 不准再看电视了!
换个正面说法:
Let’s go and play a game. 一起去玩游戏吧?

11、责问
Look what you’ve done! 看看你惹的祸!
换个正面说法:
I know you didn’t mean to. But be more careful next time. 我知道你本意不是像这样,但是下次记得小心些~

12、比较
Look at Peter. He always comes back home on time, unlike you. 看看人家小明,从来都是按时回家,哪像你?!
换个正面说法:
Try to come back on time. It’s very important. 一定要尽量按时回家哦,这很重要呢~

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